San Francisco Social Diary: 51st Annual San Francisco Debutante Ball

At this spring’s 51st annual San Francisco Debutante Ball, 24 young ladies made their debut before friends and family.


Twenty-four stunning young women made their bows at the 51st annual San Francisco Debutante Ball on Saturday, June 20. They crossed the threshold to adulthood at the Westin St. Francis in front of a crowd of 650 family, friends, and community members.

Hailey Elizabeth Cusack, Thomas James Polite, Katarina Lina Churich, and Peter James Campana.

At the stroke of midnight, June 21st welcomed the Summer Solstice and Father’s Day. What a memorable evening for dads who could twirl their debutante daughters around the dance floor in their traditional long white gowns.

Curry Fisher and Matthew Paul Fisher.

Christopher Stephen Kruse and Allaire Kruse.

Madeleine Lamm and William Lamm.

Sarah Jackmauh and Philip Jackmauh.


The long-honored rite of passage dates back to l7th-century European courts, where   young girls of aristocratic families were introduced to society. The debutante tradition is still observed here and abroad, especially in major cites, where the balls typically are charitable events.

The debutantes (or “debs”) make their debut after graduating high school, before heading off to college. Most of the San Francisco debs hail from the Bay Area, which includes the city of San Francisco, Marin, and the Peninsula. Many are legacies, whose mothers, sisters, aunts, and cousins also debuted here.

Former deb Virginia Girard, Ann Girard, and Jane Mudge.

Sofia Chenette and Christie Chenette, whose sister Julia debuted.

Merrill Kasper, Karen Weber, Jennifer Biederbeck, and Stacey Dobos.

David Soward, Brooke Wentz, and Lorre Erlick.

Lorre Erlick, Jeanne Lawrence, and Ann Girard.

Jim and Patsy Ludwig, mother-in-law to Ball Chair Stacey Dobos.

Sayareh Farsio, Ali Mozaffari, Setareh Farsio, Roger Reynolds, and Debbie Reynolds.

Theresa Spirz, Neiman Marcus GM Alan Morrell, and Lisa Grotts.

Beth Silvestri, Alan Brynjolfsson, and Tris Brynjolfsson.

Wendy Bolton, Susan Malott, and Ann Girard.

Nikki Silverman, Mark Silverman, Jeff Finegold, Jill Finegold, and Laura Russeau.

Alex Brenner, Lorre Erlick, and Maxwell Tucker Brenner.

Veronica Verklin, Kim Kristoff, Janet Ostler, and Lisa Monetta.


The grand evening began with a 7:30 p.m. cocktail reception for family and friends in the century-old Westin St. Francis’s Italian and Colonial Rooms. Upstairs, society photographer Drew Altizer’s team snapped photos of the Debs for posterity.

Before the debutantes took their bows, they enjoyed a bite of from a selection of all-white foods, chosen to ensure no errant morsel would stain their pristine gowns.


According to tradition, debutantes must wear long white gowns with straps and a full skirt, paired with elbow-length opera gloves. The escorts must wear white tie and tails with gloves. All the young people seemed to enjoy every aspect of dressing the part.

Sarah Elisabeth Jackmauh, Jennifer Hannah Baylis, Mary Elizabeth Grinnell, and Rachael Jayne Maier.

Rachael Maier and Sarah Jackmauh.

Camille Rich and Lindsay Weber.


The San Francisco Debutante Ball was founded in 1964 by the Women’s Board of the California Pacific Medical Center Foundation (CPMC), whose goal was to support traditional and charitable values and to provide philanthropic support for projects at the Medical Center. They have raised millions, to date, and this year’s ball proceeds will help establish the Resource Center for Parkinson’s disease at CPMC’s Neuroscience Institute.

The ball chair this year was Stacey Dobos of Hillsborough, a debutante herself 25 years ago and ongoing supporter of the cause. She was assisted by the Junior Committee, former debutantes who participate to reconnect and relive memories of their big night.

Ball chair Stacey Dobos with her husband Ted Dobos.


The Westin St. Francis’s rooms are timeless and magnificent. Designer J. Riccardo Benavides, creative director of Ideas Events, made them especially warm and inviting.

The Grand Ballroom featured glittering Lucite chairs and round tables topped with pink ruffled tablecloths and gold plates.

Guests dined on smoked chicken salad, filet of Angus beef, and chocolate and strawberry mousse, accompanied by California wines from Ravenswood Vineyard.

The tables were adorned with centerpieces of flowers in varying shades of pink.


As each deb made her grand entrance onstage accompanied by her escort, she performed the traditional curtsy or bow and was cheered on by new and old friends, some from high school and others dating back to childhood.

Mary Elizabeth Grinnell and Michael Grinnell.

Solange Celeste Soward and Joseph Jennison Ladd.

Jennifer Suzanne Reynolds and Maxwell Tucker Brenner.

Paige Alexandra Silverman and Parker Silverman.

At the bottom of the stairs, the escort passed the deb’s hand over to her father, relative, or a dear family friend, who presented her to the audience and joined her in the traditional waltz.

William Henry Baylis, Jennifer Hannah Baylis, and Elias Morrison Schwartz.

Mark Raymond Palmer and Paloma Elizabeth Palmer.

Clyde William Ostler and Lily Ann Ostler.

Bruce Raabe and Brooke Emily Raabe.

Philip E. Chenette and Julia Chenette.

William Ellison Grayson and Elizabeth Mason Grayson.

Jonathan Harris and Katherine Harris.

Russell Reed Silvestri and Diana Silvestri.

Paul Steigerwald and Connolly Steigerwald.

Daniel Conte and Allaire Kruse.


Once all the new debutantes had been presented, they performed the slow French Quadrille, a step routine that dates back centuries and was performed at the European royal courts. Every turn gives the audience another view of the young ladies.

Kendall Marion Finnegan, Angelo Matteo Sangiacomo, Elizabeth Mason Grayson, Henry Griffith Callender, Mary Grinnell, Micahel Grinnell II, Curry Sullivan Fisher, and William Behnke Jr.

Camille Rich, Kevin Michael Mannix II, Jennifer Suzanne Reynolds, and Maxwell Tucker Brenner performing the Quadrille.

Curry Sullivan Fisher, William Behnke Jr., Kendall Finnegan, and Angelo Sangiacomo doing the Quadrille.


For the young women, making their debuts was a once-in-a-lifetime experience; for everyone, it was a magical evening, evoking old-world glamour in an opulent setting.

Band leader Mike Carney flew in from Palm Beach to provide classic ballroom music for a twelfth time.

Sara Scannell and friend.

Paloma Palmer and friend.


It was announced that in four years, when the 2015 debs have graduated from college, CPMC will have opened two new hospitals. At Van Ness and Geary in Center City where the Cathedral Hill Hotel once stood, an entire block has been razed to make way for a new, state-of-the-art, seismically safe hospital. Ten years in the planning, it’s set to open in 2019.


The San Francisco Debutantes of 2015, in alphabetic order: Jennifer Hannah Baylis, Julia Marley Chenette, Katarina Lina Churich, Hailey Elizabeth Cusack, Kendall Marion Finnegan, Curry Sullivan Fisher, Elizabeth Mason Grayson, Mary Elizabeth Grinnell, Katherine Hamilton Harris, Sarah Elisabeth Jackmauh, Allaire Houston Kruse, Madeleine Elizabeth Lamm, Rachael Jayne Maier, Lily Ann Ostler, Paloma Elizabeth Palmer, Brooke Emily Raabe, Jennifer Suzanne Reynolds, Camille Anne Rich, Sara Reeves Scannell, Paige Alexandra Silverman, Diana Laura Silvestri, Solange Celeste Soward, Connolly Grace Steigerwald, and Lindsey Marie Weber.


Photographs by Drew Altizer

*Urbanite Jeanne Lawrence reports on lifestyle and travel from her homes in San Francisco, Shanghai, and New York, and wherever else she finds a good story.

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